pengajian kasih syg..

erk??ttba rs pelik bile diriku rajin nk menulis entry tuk 2 hari berturut2..xtually dis is post of information(gaining from experience)..so, ak tulis seringkas yg bleh k..memana xphm or xpuas ati, sila post d bhgian comments k..huahaha

pembelajaran cinta buat diriku:-

1. cintai pasangan kite skrg, bukn psangan kite yg dlu..maksudnye, if dia ade ex- tau berperangai teruk dlu, dia da berubah k..terima dia seadanye di waktu dia skrg, jgn ter influence dgn perangai dia dahulu..let b gone b by gone k..put ur trust a little bit in him..hu3
2. komunikasi is very important, talk to him..whenever u feel something wrong is going on wit ur relationship..mybe some of his words will calm u down..
3. respect his decision, there's some reason y he decided on dat..so, kena saling tolak ansur k..giv n take..it is not possible if u r talking in cara berhemah n berhikmah..bijaksana dlm perhubungn k, not only in ur studies..he3
4. then, jgn terlalu gelojoh dlm perhubungn..means??jgn pk bukn2 k..ish2..maksud ak, jgn terlalu impatient, nk kn komitmen je..asyik gesa si dia nk tu, nk ni..nk jupe mak ayah la..nk kawin laa..n bla2..mmg it is good in islamic way, but if he did not have d courage to do it, jus b patient..doa byk2 smoga jodoh berpanjangan n klu bleh jgn la lakukan perkara2 yg mengundang k arah maksiat..hu3..jus b patient..insyaAllah, if dia ditakdirkn tuk kite, mmg kite akn bersama dgn nye jugak..(xtually dis is for myself..hu3..now i realize it, so now i am struggling to be patient..huahaha)

some tips for d guys:-

1. gurl is complicated = a happy woman is a myth..every successful man has a woman behind him n every unsuccessful man also has a woman behind him (from en Tedy)..ha3..it's true if u guys think dat way but seriously not all gurl like dat k..gurl think emotional but guys think rational??is it true??sometime mybe but not all times k..=P
2. gurl is forgetful = u need to remind her every day that u r being serious wit her..she will always forget dat u r love her..then, she'll think bukan2 n start not trusting u..(dis is dangerous state..hu3)..
3. gurl never know wat r u thinking till u tell her..ktrg bukannye nujum nk tafsir2 pe korunk pk..so, the most perfect way is u must tell her..plsss tell her wat was ur feeling...=)
4. gurl is lying about her own feelings..when she says she's alrite, dat doesn't mean dat she's ok but she's pretend she is ok..so, as a guy who is i love wit dat gurl, u olls kena la tau mcm mane nk baca hati dia k..xpecially if u oll cter about ur ex..of coz she is pretending to be not care about it..hu3
5. gurl is ..next time i'll continue..he3..

ok done, yg mane ak rs nk tmbah, lenkali ak edit post nih..huahaha..