Assalamualaikum wbt..
uit uit..
hyep hyep..
n sewaktu dgnnye..
ari ni 9 July 2013
esk 10 July 2013
means 1 Ramadan..
wah, dah bulan Ramadan dah..
kejap jer..pejam celik pejam celik, nk masuk kali ke 3 ak smbut Ramadan kat cni..huhu
if org branak tu, ank dia dah leh jalan, berckap dah..(suka kaitkn peredaran msa dgn kelahiran ank..sbbnye baru nmpk jelas terang nyata yg masa tu dah lamaaaa berlalu..huhu)
well, dsbbkan Ramadan membuka tirai nye, ak pon telah buat keptusan by hook or by crook,I need to meet parent Mr Tedy b4 Ramadan.. maka terjadilah episod di mana ak telah mengumpul keberanian yg bukn sedikit utk berjumpa dgn parent dia..
d story now begins...
starting with planning dgn mak dia..at first his parent plans to meet me here, at KL..which means the mum n father will come to c only me..not without him..sbbnye diorg nk kenal ak, bukannye ank diorg..so, ak dgn penuh keberanian, OK, y not..dgn cerita yg si dia n adiknye taburkan kat ak tentang mak dia lg(of koz the story was not side on me)..what do u expect??butterfly in d stomach usah ckap la kan..but seriously, bile pk2 logik smpai bile kn??smpai bile xnk kenal..ello, awk nk kat ank dia, nk kawin dgn ank dia, sooner or later u'll meet them, whole family, gonna live with them, so lets move on!!itu lah antra kata pembina semangat y kian luruh hari demi hari..haha..(but seyesly, i was really happy bcoz akhirnye si dia berjaya bgtau parent dia about me..means dia start dah pk nk proceed to d next stage..tp sempat jugak la dia kutuk ak depan mak dia kn..hoho..)
then, after planning n planning using him as org tengah, last2 planning parent dia nk jupe ak kat KL xjd..sbbnye diorg nk meet on Friday..of koz la no kn, sbbnye mcm2 benda leh berlaku bila ari jumaat..first, Prof mmg free on Friday, 2nd, Friday ak terikat lg ngn waktu ofis hour..so, mcm xsedap ati pon ade..xnk la bile jupe mak dia tu, fikiran xtenang..so, I cant..then xjd la..so, xpe la..lam ati ak, ade rezeki jumpe la kami..mybe if jupe time ni, mak dia ade yng xberkenan dgn ak ke, mungkin..ade hikmahnye kn..=)
one month later..k weeks after, lupe dah..ak kata la kat alqaf, xleh jd ni..dah nk pose..nk raye lak tu..so, smpai bile nk bertgguh..feels like something not done yet..so, ak kumpul keberanian lg skali ckap la kat si dia yang i wanna meet his parent..n by myself..n kat melaka..at his hometown..senang crita..agpon mlake n Kl xde la jauh mane pon..nek bas 2 hours dah smpai dah..so, alkisahnye decide la cam tu..in two weeks time i'll meet his parent at Melaka..
google punyer google cam ne petua2 nk memikat or adab2 berjumpa dgn bakal mertua buat kali pertama>>ello, i do some literature k..ingt sibuk writing thesis n manuscript ja ka..sambil2 tu la..haha..well, ilmu kena ade beb, baru la nmpak kematangan n berkayakinan..so, dipendekkan cerita, ak nk penampilan ak nmpk xketerlaluan, sederhana(sbbnye first impression is d most important thing..agpon ak pn xde la keterlaluan lam fesyen ni..mybe xreti berfesyen senang citer.hehe)..pastu, ats bantuan k.suhana (colleague ak) berjaya la ak mencari blouse labuh tuk dipadankn ngn sluar slack..n tudung pkai tudung y sedia ade..jimat pon jimat..
berckap on phone at d first time make me to practice dulu dgn dedey..thanks to her that support me..hehe.. ramai senarnye kwan2 ak yg bg semangat..if not, mesti ak less courage dah nk berdepan ngn parent dia..kol mak dia for d first time to make a plan for a tomorrow meeting, ni disebabkan oleh si dia xleh join..tp mmg ak xharap pon dia akn join..sbbnye ak nk jumpa mak dia, bukan dia..n lg pon time ni dia ade aktiviti ngn kawan2 dia kat Kl..promise is a promise..understood..=)
bersua muka ngn mak dia buat kali pertamanye, berdebar2 perasaan..serba xkena..tp bile mak dia bg senyuman mesra, ak bertambah lega..tp seyesly ak byk diam gak r..mmg one of my weakness, ak xmcm kak ak yg mmg peramah ngn org tua..ak xreti nk berckap ngn org tua..n mak dia lak jenis observer, mmg agk kaku r ckit lam kete tu..oh ya, ktrg p mkn2, mak dia amik ak from MC tu bawak p Ayer Keroh..then, time ngah mkn2 tu la baru ktrg berborak mesra ckit..prasaan ak pon makin ok n leh la ajk mak dia berbual2..sal family ak, sal diri ak, sal si dia..n sal family dia..plus isu2 semasa ckit..seyesly next time i'll improve more..maafkan sy makcik sbb byk senyap gak..huhu..oh ya, btw, ayh dia xde..so ak jupe mak dia n adik bongsu dia ja..ayh dia ade urusan kat Kl..kitrg mkn n borak lam sejam lebih2 cam tu, pastu ak pon p tdo bermlm umh kwan ak..kat mlaka gak..
ini la etika pemakaian ak p jupe mak dia..ak suka sbb nmpak sopan n x tabarruj..^_^
Ok dah..tamat sudah episod crita ak berjumpa bakal mertua..pengajaran nye adalah:-
1. be urself..its d best thing to do..jgnla hipokrit..then, baru lah nmpak keikhlasan kamu..
2. tolonglah hanis, belajar cara berckap dgn org tua supaya xkekok sgt..huhu
3. dont judge a person from another person's story..sume y diceritakan tu xsume betul..hehe
4. just berserah kat Illahi..u've done ur best..n tawakkal jer la..
Then, markah ak??means komen dr pihak mak si dia adalah:-
1. dia bg greenlight!!yeay!!alhamdulillah..^_^
2. ak seorang yg tegas, ak akn usahakan smpai ak dpt benda tu if ak nk.
3. prangai ak sama dgn si dia dr segi tu (hal ini merunsingkan mak dia sbbnye takut if salah sorang drp ktrg meletopppp..huhu)- tp org kata klu takut dilambung ombak jgn berumah di tepi pntai..
4. leh proceed next step..hihi..alhamdulillah..
so, segala yang berlaku ni, terima kasih buat:-
1. We a.k.a ayh - bg kebenaran tuk ak jupe parent si dia. Adk syg We.
2. Si dia - give his full trust to me, n yakin dgn ak, n jual cter molek2 sal ak kat mak dia (even ad gak kutuk ak..hehe)..termasuklah adik si dia skali yg support kakak y xmatang nih..hehe
3. Parent si dia - sudi jumpa ak n berkenalan dgn ak n approve ak..^_^
4. Kawan2 - yang support, bg kata semangat, bg facilities, temankan shopping, temankan rehearsal n percaya dgn ak. luv u gurls..
ok, done for this diary like entry..errrmm..till next story..=)
